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Christine Galida's avatar

So glad YLYJ! We spoke one other time about being a funeral officiant. Your job is also important, don't forget that. and as always I love reading about your shenanigans!

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Spike Gillespie's avatar

Thank you!

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Camille Sauers's avatar

Spike, we met this weekend at Brad & Steff's wedding. My friends and I were smoking by the animals and you told us all about who was imprinting on who and other scandals. I love your substack! I hope to make it to one of your workshops at some point.

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Spike Gillespie's avatar

What a wonderful wedding!! Great meeting y’all. And please do come to a workshop. Really great community.

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Camille Sauers's avatar

Looking forward to it! Have you read anything by joy Williams? Reading a short story collection by her now. I think you’d appreciate her sense of humor

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Spike Gillespie's avatar

Her name rings a very vague bell. Thanks for the recommendation. I will add her to the top of the list!

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Sarelle McCoard's avatar

I am questing my career choices 🤣. Your job sounds fun, unexpected, and meaningful.

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Krissy Teegerstrom's avatar

I'm amazed and impressed that you can show up and lead groups in both extreme grief and extreme joy. That's a lot of responsibility but it also sounds very rewarding. Thank you for sharing!

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Spike Gillespie's avatar

It is a very odd job for an introvert but something about having a job to do helps me to show up and do it.

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Julie C's avatar

I love your job (for you) too. You have a heart as big as Texas.

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Spike Gillespie's avatar

Thank you. ❤️

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Joy Baldwin's avatar

This is such great fodder for a collection of essays, I don’t know how you could resist.

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Spike Gillespie's avatar

Thank you.

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Catherine Palmer's avatar

Your Monday morning posts are always a treat. Thank you, Spike!🤗

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Spike Gillespie's avatar

Kitty!! I keep meaning to email you and then I get pulled away by the latest disaster. I hope you are well and would love to see you soon.

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Andrea Stoeckel's avatar

There is a reason while I was in active ministry that my rules were simple: no one intoxicated at the rehearsal or the actual wedding ( both at the church or at a home wedding), I must see legal proof of divorces, and *I* took the signed certificate to the local city hall ( One of my parish offices has a DOZEN wedding certificates sitting in a drawer)

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